The sweet smell of jasmine warm on my scalp, her soft hands, calloused palms weaving through my hair with scented oil aged rich by generations, braids in my hair donned like armor. Fried okra, mutton curry, and porridge humming lightly against the base of my chest. I ate too much. One day in second grade I told her these are the things I like best, and since then this has been the first meal I have at her house, always. It tastes the same, always. I overeat, always.聽
She takes me out to see her roses, and we sit on the big swing on the porch, my head on her lap staining her saree 鈥� tradition. Her wearing a darker shade anticipating things I don鈥檛 even give second thoughts to 鈥� love.聽
鈥淵ou are my favorite, you know that right?鈥� My head shoots up; she doesn鈥檛 look at me.
鈥淵ou know, Aaji, if you tell all your grandkids that they’re your favorite, it kind of loses its charm. Isn’t that like grandma treason?鈥�
鈥淏ut you are, I do not see a point in lying and not playing favorites.鈥�
鈥淎aji, I 鈥斺�� I chuckle.聽
鈥淵ou know I always wanted a daughter, never a son.鈥�
鈥淲ha 鈥� please tell me you have a story.鈥�
鈥淚 was really disappointed when your father was born, bless his heart 鈥� you know what I mean 鈥� and then your uncle after that, bless his heart too. 鈥�
鈥淚s that why my uncle is rocking a frock in every single baby picture of his?鈥�
鈥淵es, well, I was convinced he was going to be a girl. My stitching skills got a bit carried away.鈥�
鈥淲hy didn鈥檛 you stitch pants then instead, after?鈥�
鈥淎h child, we didn鈥檛 have money then, tougher times. This house is not where we lived always. We used to live in a single rented room, your grandfather, me, and then the babies all in one room.鈥澛�
鈥淥ne room? That can not be right. Wha 鈥� !鈥澛�
鈥淚 finally got it, you know?鈥�
鈥淲hat, a big house?鈥澛�
Her hand gently strokes my hair, patting my head with each stroke.
鈥淣o 鈥� a daughter.鈥� She looks at me and smiles, the lines around her eyes falling right in place like puzzle pieces.
Dusty roads and low buildings surrounded the neighborhood. A small city tucked in the hottest parts of India. I leave the house, running downstairs at the echo of my friends. My grandmother watches me from the balcony, her voice in the background trailing 鈥� 鈥淏e back before seven!鈥�
鈥淵es, Grandma,鈥� I say, my back to her, but I know she smiles.
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I look at my nine-year-old cousin for the first time in my life at the airport. She runs into my arms, blood recognising blood. I laugh at her innocence and stroke her hair; it doesn鈥檛 smell like jasmine.聽
She asks if she can go home to nap before we see Grandmother in the hospital. I find my father鈥檚 gaze, and a nod tells me to not say anything. My uncle whispered to me gently that she doesn鈥檛 know yet.聽
My uncle moved to America and never visited India even once in 13 years. His daughter has never seen this house, her family, or even me till today. All of our necks craned up in anticipation for her to come out, asking us to stop playing because it was seven now.聽
Silence.
Cheap, worn, mud-colored sandals in the doorway, countless, making a beeline to the porch, underneath the swing, all the way up to the roses. The smell of jasmines, fifteen incense sticks pulling me in.聽
My cousin-sister looks at the ceremony she can鈥檛 comprehend and the tradition she doesn鈥檛 understand. She runs to her father howling in tears. I feel heavy again, the base of my chest pulled down by something heavier than tears, thicker than blood 鈥� love.
My grandmother always wanted daughters. She has two today.
鈥淎h let me take a photo with you. You guys look so pretty, stand by the roses,鈥� she says.
鈥淵ou guys look so pretty, stand by the roses,鈥� she would have said.
She would have said. She would have said this if only my uncle had made it home three days early.聽
She wore a dark saree the day she passed. Maybe it is me rambling, or she knew I would be coming soon to see her 鈥� love.
She packed a bowl of porridge in the fridge the day she passed. Maybe it is me rambling, or she knew I would be coming soon to see her 鈥� tradition.
I sit now, on the porch, among the dying roses with my cousin-sister. Oiling her hair with jasmine oil, she sits there with the last batch of porridge my grandmother ever made heavy against the base of her chest. She smiles.